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| Manipulative People
Today I've encounterend yet another manipulative creature. It's a
guy I've known for a long time. He used to be one of my better
friends, he's 18 now but he's becoming worse and worse. He's
one of those people who always are as opportunistic as possible,
always get theur gain. He even gets money every week from his
autistic (!) older brother (whom I like way better, he's empathetic
and caring).
No, but he ( the younger one) is manipulative as shit, always tries
to accuse you of something to make himself come better out of it.
I've had a long telephone call with him an hour ago ( over a
hypothetical spilled beer, which was my fault according to him, but
it wasn't. Yet he convinced his older (autistic) brother that I did it,
even though at first he said it wasn't my fault)
It's through childish things like this he tries to gain a grip on
people, when I was on the telephone with him I still succeeded in
keeping him of (I studied law a coiple of year, but I failed). But he
scared me , he reminded me of those serfial killers in some soaps.
Now I'm going to buy this book: 'In Sheeps Clothing:
Understanding and Dealing with Manipulative People'
Not only for myself (to get rid of him and warn people for him,-
'cause that's the frustrating part, most people don't see it- and
protect his older , caring and humane (slightly autistic) brother
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bakkermaarten007
05.05.12 | Please share your thoughts on this subject, I feel really alone with this. | tarkus
05.05.12 | im 14 and have absolutely no advice to offer you because of this | MuhNamesTyler
05.05.12 | ....stop hanging out with him | BarkHammer
05.05.12 | Just because he's manipulative, doesn't mean a) he's a serial killer and b) he's a sociopath. He's probably just a cunt. | bakkermaarten007
05.05.12 | I'm 23 and I have no way out really. We're in the same sports club (table tennis). He worked his way into our circle of friends. But I think I'm the only one who knows him for what he really is. | bakkermaarten007
05.05.12 | "Just because he's manipulative, doesn't mean a) he's a serial killer and b) he's a sociopath. He's probably just cunt."
Yeah, but he can be really cold and narcissistic. Same characteristics. | MuhNamesTyler
05.05.12 | Fucking kill him | BarkHammer
05.05.12 | @foxxy; I'd happily do it for him. | bakkermaarten007
05.05.12 | "dont make a big deal out of it and he wont push you down an elevator shaft"
I'm certainly not afraid of him on the physical part, hell I'm way waaaay more muscular than him. But I just can't let these type of people get their way and hurt others. | MuhNamesTyler
05.05.12 | put a dildo in his book bag and then everybody will think he's gay. Problem solved | bakkermaarten007
05.05.12 | "put a dildo in his book bag and then everybody will think he's gay. Problem solved"
Unfortunately I'm already out of high school. Ugh, wouldn't the world be so much better without these people, with people who only said what they were thinking without trying to climb their way to the top at the expense of others? | bakkermaarten007
05.05.12 | "youre not going to get many serious answers here and as far as i can tell hes just more of a man than you"
If being a man equals being arrogant, benefitting out of other people, narcissistic,...well then yes he is. | bakkermaarten007
05.05.12 | Then I'm not a man....clearly. | MuhNamesTyler
05.05.12 | Seriously dude you just gotta not hang out with him unless you feel like pulling some lame 80's movie scheme and out
him in front of your friends for being a dick but they probably wouldn't even care anyway. Or you could just beat his ass | bakkermaarten007
05.05.12 | "Seriously dude you just gotta not hang out with him unless you feel like pulling some lame 80's movie scheme and out him in front of your friends for being a dick but they probably wouldn't even care anyway."
That would be the easiest solution, but it's hard because his brother is a friend of mine but really naive (and kind) and we share a couple of mutual friends (who are also naive, well most people are anyways). And even my own brother, but he's really dumb on social issues sometimes and he always blames me ( brother thing I guess). | Cells
05.05.12 | retarded people always seem to be nicer when theyre not drooling over themselves | profoundword
05.05.12 | I know a dude kinda like that, acts super friendly and fun but he's really just incredibly vain and calculating... I don't think he's a serial killer though, just an insecure douche. | Recspecs
05.05.12 | Sucks dude, but manipulative assholes are just a fact of life. Just listen to Strapping Young Lad and try to fuck your hot underage second cousin. | MuhNamesTyler
05.05.12 | Solid advice right there | Recspecs
05.05.12 | Thanks dude I think I'm gonna start an advice blog. |
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