Butkuiss: Records My Partner Has Turned Off In The Car

Butkuiss 07.28.23	We have fun :)
bellovddd 07.28.23	4 and 6. how dare they.
Butkuiss 07.28.23	Bold to assume my partner is a she, bellovddd
evilford 07.28.23	They may not be the one bro, js
bellovddd 07.28.23	yes. it was.
dedex 07.28.23	ascendant vierge you a real one ✊
Butkuiss 07.28.23	It was your review that turned me onto them, dedex :)
dedex 07.28.23	🥰
Koris 07.28.23	Is this over the course of just one trip, or different trips over time?
DoofDoof 07.28.23	good takes tbh
mechamagica 07.28.23	seems a bit unpleasant - hope it's somehow more good natured than it sounds
Butkuiss 07.28.23	@Koris various trips over the past month
gravityswitch 07.28.23	Did they like actual music or
normaloctagon 07.28.23	Lmao tbh feature this
normaloctagon 07.28.23	I’m going to lobby the mod team to get electronic in your pie chart b boy, how do you feel abt that
unclereich 07.28.23	never too late to make a change of partner
Butkuiss 07.28.23	My pie chart is entirely inaccurate because I never bother rating anything any more but used to obsessively rate every dodgy local punk EP I heard when I first joined the site over ten years ago
Demon of the Fall 07.28.23	mostly based partner (I dig Syro and there's a few where I have no clue what they are) I am wondering what they actually like tho. At least there's a bit of variation here and it's not the most inaccessible selection.
Tundra 07.28.23	So theyre a swiftie
unclereich 07.28.23	fat bitches need love too Craig
Butkuiss 07.28.23	My partner mainly listens to very specific EDM artists (mostly microhouse, wonky, ambient house, deep house) and like, Lana Del Rey and Sufjan Stevens and stuff. They really dislike loud noises, distortion and any form of dissonance lmao. This list is like 60% stuff I put on that I thought they’d like and was dead wrong about and 40% stuff I put on knowing it’d annoy the hell out of them.
Demon of the Fall 07.28.23	hmm, well I dig some house but that's a very restrictive diet, lol are you gonna give up the ghost, or continue to throw on the 'irritating' ones just to annoy them?
unclereich 07.28.23	imagine putting on Illinois and not getting a headache
Shemson 07.28.23	“They really dislike loud noises, distortion and any form of dissonance lmao” *Throws on Scaring The Hoes’ 🤣 It’s funny that it was the offensiveness that got her before the abrasive madness of the album tbh
Purpl3Spartan 07.28.23	This list is couples goals but unironically
unclereich 07.28.23	if not music what do you have in common with this person
Shemson 07.28.23	Six months into dating my now wife she managed to get me the Casualties of Cool record for my birthday and it was that day I knew she was a keeper!
unclereich 07.28.23	love it! I just cant imagine not sharing the lot of my music taste with my partner. years ago an ex gf of mine said etched headplate gave her headaches. today she's divorced weighs 250 lbs and has a kid. hotchie motchie
kkarron 07.28.23	they right
Jasdevi087 07.28.23	"My partner mainly listens to very specific EDM artists (mostly microhouse, wonky, ambient house, deep house) and like, Lana Del Rey and Sufjan Stevens and stuff. They really dislike loud noises, distortion and any form of dissonance lmao. " unbelievably twee lol
Demon of the Fall 07.28.23	I've been with my wife 12 years and I'd give her an 'outside chance' of being able to name 5% of my top 100 albums (not an exact science here but yeah), lol
Trifolium 07.28.23	Hahahahaha love this. My bf likes some of my faves, and we share many 4.0s and thereabouts, but he ultra dislikes many of my 5.0s.
unclereich 07.28.23	I've been with my wife 12 years and I'd give her an 'outside chance' of being able to name 5% of my top 100 albums (not an exact science here but yeah), lol sure but I'd be very bummed if someone I was keen on was as dismissive towards my taste as this. but I clearly place more importance on shared interest in tunes than others. I'd be interested in knowing how long this relationship has been going on for, im bringing up aphex twin on a first date hehehe
Demon of the Fall 07.28.23	music has been somewhat of a solitary hobby for most of my life, at least once I started developing my own tastes outside of what was commonplace amongst my peers / friends I'm not really fussed these days. If I wanna chat music, then well that's why I'm here.
Storm In A Teacup 07.28.23	I dont listen to any of this music but this list is indeed my life
unclereich 07.28.23	I certainly dont fuss over music but I suppose next to shared values my circle of friends really bond over music and gigs and, unsurprisingly, my few long term relationships were with people who also loved music and were open minded about hearing new stuff-and of course so am I. I'll never forget being introduced to boards of canada and refused by a former partner when I was 18 right around the time I joined the site. im very into sports but for me thats a solitary thing and I could not care less if a partner is into it, but it would be a bummer if I put on aphex twin and they got a headache lol. though like I said I'd suss that out on a first date and probably not pursue them further
PizzaBear 07.28.23	“This is the most annoying song I’ve ever heard” (in reference to the title track) Based. My fiance plays this one sometimes and I suffer through it in silence
gravityswitch 07.28.23	having a headache while listening to Aphex Twin seems pretty normal tbf
Bazman 07.28.23	I hear you mate, my car journeys are just as fun
Ryus 07.28.23	my gf will tolerate literally everything i play including brutal dm. its lit
ArsMoriendi 07.28.23	This list seems pretty diverse genre wise Kinda makes your partner seem close minded for being bothered by this many different styles
Ryus 07.28.23	she right about 13 doe
PotsyTater 07.28.23	Pretty based
JohnnyoftheWell 07.28.23	13 is a based take fr "makes your partner seem close minded for being bothered by this many different styles" tbh you could easily scrape together the equivalent of this list for you, fogza and budgie (maybe others) from the old SOTD threads
Havey 07.28.23	8 is the only L
PotsyTater 07.28.23	Maybe it’s not the styles themselves…
zakalwe 07.28.23	If you actually read this consecutively they clearly have autism. Keeper material
DadKungFu 07.28.23	Get your partner into Vomir
MoM 07.28.23	@3 😦 The descriptions make them sound pretty annoying, but that might be the point, i dunno
DoofDoof 07.28.23	I probably only play about 20% of the stuff I like in the presence of the wife and then that stuff she really likes. Previous relationships was more like 80% and yeah...better to compromise/apply that filter.
Sevengill 07.28.23	it's times like this I'm especially glad I met my girlfriend at one of my shows. sorry, sweaty, the Agalloch road trip is non-negotiable.
Spec 07.28.23	Show them Opeth next.
Ryus 07.28.23	the one thing my gf doesnt like is 90s hip hop because she says the flows are boring. breakup incoming
Shemson 07.28.23	Lol to be fair my Mrs rarely likes my hip hop stuff but she cracks me up listening to brutal shit whilst she’s putting on her make up looking all sweet getting ready to go visit my parents for dinner and be charming 🤣
mryrtmrnfoxxxy 07.28.23	9 is so funny to me. it's incubus! lmao. cool list
twlight 07.28.23	Dump em for not liking 14
Butkuiss 07.28.23	Damn, this got a bigger response than expected. I will periodically add to this list as more interactions like this occur.
Jash 07.28.23	10 is surprising
Butkuiss 07.29.23	And we’re off with the first additions
DType 07.29.23	1 is so good
BAT 07.29.23	Wuts her thoughts on 'Jane Doe' tho
PitchforkArms 07.29.23	my gf loves kezia, lucky me
Butkuiss 07.29.23	My partner would not consent to listen to converge, sorry BAT
Storm In A Teacup 07.29.23	My girlfriend can barely tolerate any kind of metal and she considers most post hardcore in the realm of metal. Basically any pxc that has any screaming she cant stand. There are two songs we can watch together. She tolerates Rolo Tomassis Ritual song after hating it at first but asked to watch the music video many times. And the other metal song she actually does like is the music video for Rivers of Nihil Where Owls Know My Name
Storm In A Teacup 07.29.23	She will tolerate other Rivers of Nihil stuff but not much.
Butkuiss 07.30.23	Yeah the “post hardcore / punk is not metal” conversation drives me up the wall but we’ve agreed to just use the term “screaming music” as a catch all now LOL
bellovddd 07.30.23	ah screaming music. thats how my ex described it lol.
Butkuiss 07.30.23	But she’ll listen to Limp Bizkit no problems. Odd!
PizzaBear 07.31.23	My gf isn't into much metal but she can tolerate it and sometimes sort of appreciate it even if it isn't her thing which I appreciate a ton about her Hell, she even gets the death metal/black metal distinction most of the time now lmao
Demon of the Fall 07.31.23	I think my wife is just particularly sensitive to sounds of all descriptions (not necessarily just 'music'), so it's not fair exposing her to stuff that she really can't stand - which is a lot of things, seemingly
FREETHEGUYS 07.31.23	If your girl turnin off type O LMAOOOOOOOOOOO pull out the calculator……. Do the math.:.:.:::::
SomeCallMeTim 07.31.23	your partner suggesting that peter's vocals on october rust are anything less than gravy smoothness is sacrilege
ArsMoriendi 07.31.23	Now that you’ve added that she can’t stand Aretha Franklin, I’m doubling down on my initial comment
Dewinged 07.31.23	Dunno if it has been said before but someone's gotta say it. She's not the one bro.
SomeCallMeTim 07.31.23	drop their discogs here
Dewinged 07.31.23	Ok it was said before and I also assumed their pronoun. Sorry. Gotta say though your partner is right about a few of these lol
Demon of the Fall 07.31.23	“This is like Teen Angst the Musical” okay, now that one made me chuckle, even tho I love that album, lol And how is there 'too much going on' re Sneaker Pimps... seriously?
Ryus 07.31.23	when i see this on the homepage for some reason my brain goes to “Records My Partner Has Turned Into”
SomeCallMeTim 07.31.23	Records My Partner Gets Turned On To
Demon of the Fall 07.31.23	same here actually Ryus, how weird I’m thinking it’s just an association thing, like the next word should be ‘into’ even tho that makes no logical sense whatsoever 😆
LilLioness 05.21.24	Glad they are your partner, because they'd annoy the fuck out of me.
evilford 05.21.24	Lul
evilford 05.21.24	I screen all my potential partners If they ain't into gorguts, they ain't get no date
LilLioness 05.21.24	calls TON 'screaming music' Me: Is the sex really good enough?