zeppelinUSA
12.05.09 | Ahh why am I not getting artwork for 1?
Also advice, suggestions, thoughts on life much appreciated. |
Prophet178
12.05.09 | Ask her/tell her how you feel. It's better to get it out than think about what could have been. |
DiceMan
12.05.09 | You need more teen angst albums tbh. |
MindTrain
12.05.09 | You're just going through a phase. |
Homewrecker
12.05.09 | Girls are people too, not special mythical animals. Just talk to her about your feelings in a non-creepy way. Also you probably are not in love. |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | Hold up Love Boat, don't go confessing all at once.
Has she given you any indication of reciprocated feelings as well? Possibly not to the level of your feelings, but anything? |
tombits
12.05.09 | Yeah brosif, my situation is kind of the same, except it's my ex-girlfriend. She broke up with me and it's almost been two years, but I've always had a soft spot for her and I'm really starting to like her again. I don't know how she feels, and I don't know if I really want to know to be honest.
/pussy |
cirq
12.05.09 | cant really give advice to a guy that says "im only 16 but im in love cuz i cant stop thinking about her". give us more detail |
Prophet178
12.05.09 | Or you could just put on some Sex Panther, works 60% of the time, every time. |
zeppelinUSA
12.05.09 | dreamsoffew, yeah I know she's at least kinda interested in me, just don't know how much. I'm planning to probably ask her out when I see her Monday, along the lines of Prophet178 |
rasputin
12.05.09 | my advice, and this has always worked for me - fuck her, tell her you hate her then punch her in the face |
PuddlesPuddles
12.05.09 | If you get rasputin's advice to work in reverse order, then should you truly be a man |
ShineOn75
12.05.09 | just rec her some opeth. |
qwe3
12.05.09 | Dryden has the answer. whip that shit out |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | Well whatever you're thinking of telling her maybe make it a touch more casual than what you described up above. You go spilling any beans early you'r liable to freeak her out.
It's ok to think it but don't go pulling "i've watched you from afar and I think I might be in love for the first time" thing, it won't work.
I don't doubt the sincerity in your feelings but it's hard to be in love with someone that you're not physically together with, or have been in the past |
zeppelinUSA
12.05.09 | I dont know, i guess "in love" is overstating it. She's the first girl I've been attracted to in not a mostly physical way. I mean she's attractive but I also really like her as a person. |
Relinquished
12.05.09 | Comments like these are reasons not to ask for help in sputnik |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | Tombits: Are you still on good terms with her? Chat and catch up etc. |
zeppelinUSA
12.05.09 | but yeah I know her at least moderately well, its not like a creeper situation or anything lol |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | zeppelin: what has she said/done to make you think she likes you?
Wasn't trying to sound cruel with the whole "watching you from afar" thing, I don't doubt your sincerity. |
Homewrecker
12.05.09 | Formula to success with women
1. Don't be creepy
2. If you think it sounds romantic and cool, it's probably terrible
3. Don't try to impress her
4. Be yourself, unless yourself violates #1
5. See #1 |
PuddlesPuddles
12.05.09 | Who in the right mind would take advice from a homewrecker |
MindTrain
12.05.09 | 6. Make her jealous
7. Ignore her |
Homewrecker
12.05.09 | Can't wreck homes if you can't get the girls in the first place can you? |
Rubbadonga
12.05.09 | you're probably not in love dude
and Homewrecker's advice is pretty good
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ZeroTolerance
12.05.09 | Just tell her you want to eat it like a roast beef sandwich. and then she's yours. |
zeppelinUSA
12.05.09 | Well for the last couple weeks she's texted me pretty much every day. It's dropping off a bit recently though. We flirt a good bit, she definitely wants to hang out, there's been conflicts for either of us. Mostly I'm trying to figure out if she's looking to be friends or have a relationship.
@Relinquished: I know right? I add that as an afterthought, didn't expect this many reponses |
Prophet178
12.05.09 | NO LOVE, NO HOPE. |
tombits
12.05.09 | He makes a compelling argument.
Dreamsoffew, I don't actually know how it worked in the first place. We're completely different people leading vastly different lives, but somehow we worked around that. Since we broke it off though I think we've both changed even more, and I'm not sure we'd suit. I guess we'll just see what happens from here... |
Prophet178
12.05.09 | If you keep up with the friend thing you'll never have her as a girlfriend. You need to move in quickly if you think you're getting in the friend zone. |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | You say the texts are dropping off, that your doing or is it her not texting much anymore? |
MillionMilesAway
12.05.09 | Yeah she likes you. She's waiting for you to make a move. Dont let her slip away! |
Homewrecker
12.05.09 | If she is flirting with you as much as you hope she is you need to man up and go for it. Someone got my completely obvious username reference too. |
DiceMan
12.05.09 | SputnikTherapy |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | Yeah, but do you still catch up? As in physically see each other, even if it is irregular. |
qwe3
12.05.09 | Sputships.com
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Rubbadonga
12.05.09 | DO NOT I repeat DO NOT make her your friend, you don't want to get caught in the "friend zone" |
zeppelinUSA
12.05.09 | @dreams: some of both i guess, we used to have loong conversations about whatever and I realized I was sending more of a friend message so theres that.
@prophet: That's what I'm worried about, so I just decided I'm going for it next time I see her |
zeppelinUSA
12.05.09 | This list has so many more comments than any of my lists that are actually about music |
EverythingEvil2113
12.05.09 | women enjoy being treated like crap - stewie griffin |
Homewrecker
12.05.09 | Nobody goes to music websites to actually talk about music. |
bungy
12.05.09 | Girls are an inferior subspecies of human |
Prophet178
12.05.09 | Yeah man I think you'll do fine, if you felt out the situation and have a good feeling then why not go for it. As cliche as it is, the worst thing she can say is no then you move on. |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | Okay, the friend texting is stupid!!
But don't rush into it, if she's lost interest you'll completely scare her away (whether or not you want to be friends with her if there's no chance of a relationship is up to you).
If she's cooling down in the texts, she's losing interest. Could be a number of reasons, one could be because you haven't made a move. what you do is text/call her and arrange to do something, go to a movie or something. You know, cliche stuff.
Don't wax on the sentiments but pull out some casual flirting and compliments. Trust me, you'll know if it works. If you get nothing at the end of the night, then you tell her. Not before |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | Bungy, try growing a pair before making that comment again |
bungy
12.05.09 | Good luck dude and if you fail in your quest then listen to Midnight Organ Fight |
zeppelinUSA
12.05.09 | Thanks dreams, sounds like a plan |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | You're welcome
I should put up a list entitled "Ask Mel" or something lol |
bungy
12.05.09 | Not trying to be a jerk...I'm just proud I thought of something so demeaning on the spot |
MentalityOfA
12.05.09 | It's all 4's fault, isn't it? |
jagride
12.05.09 | use the 'bag and tag' method, thats how i landed my first girlfriend |
MillionMilesAway
12.05.09 | Just listen to Dreamsoffew. She seems to be giving the best advice. Also she's a girl and girls are superior to us men! Seriously, most of the comments here are just terrible. |
Homewrecker
12.05.09 | You best not be puttin' down my advice. |
Rubbadonga
12.05.09 | @ MillionMilesAway "girls are superior to us men"
She's giving out the best advice because she's the only one taking this seriously |
MillionMilesAway
12.05.09 | Hey... Creepy girls like creepy guys... |
Homewrecker
12.05.09 | Creepy girls like any guys. |
Yazz_Flute
12.05.09 | How close to her are you already? I was really close friends with a girl who I ended up dating and that ended up fucking me over pretty bad right now even though she didn't really do anything wrong at all. |
DiceMan
12.05.09 | ^One might say that he would follow her into the dark... |
Poet
12.05.09 | oh shit! look out world, bodom is on the verge of giving relationship advice. |
HolidayKirk
12.05.09 | You need some Postal Service bro. |
Yazz_Flute
12.05.09 | sometimes you gotta let the sensitive guy kick in, as much as I am a fan of poon there is much more to relationships than just that |
Rubbadonga
12.05.09 | "as much as I am a fan of poon there is much more to relationships than just that" examples please? |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | If you have to ask you'll never know |
qwe3
12.05.09 | ^ stfu |
Yazz_Flute
12.05.09 | funky mothafuckas will not be told to go
and FEELINGZ mayne |
Prophet178
12.05.09 | Oh man, I think another qwe brawl is about to begin. |
Rubbadonga
12.05.09 | "Oh man, I think another qwe brawl is about to begin"
yea man going after dreams what's that all about? |
jagride
12.05.09 | i think that 'stfu' comment was intended for you? idk |
Prophet178
12.05.09 | If it was towards Dreams, things are going to get sad/funny real fast. |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | Yeah, thought that was pretty obvious |
Rubbadonga
12.05.09 | "i think that 'stfu' comment was intended for you?"
what makes you say that? |
qwe3
12.05.09 | yeah it was. dreams you got in the way.
there needs be no brawling |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | What makes you say that prophet? |
jagride
12.05.09 | "i think that 'stfu' comment was intended for you?"
what makes you say that?
you need to be weeded out dude. you're weakening the sputnik gene pool |
Rubbadonga
12.05.09 | oh it was for me?
it was just a joke people stop taking this so seriously |
jagride
12.05.09 | rofl dude you take EVERYTHING way too seriously |
Curse.
12.05.09 | lol at being 16 and "legit in love" |
Prophet178
12.05.09 | I thought qwe was just looking to start a fight for no reason, misunderstanding.
Anyway, girl problems... |
Rubbadonga
12.05.09 | @ MrPoopular
i take everything too seriously? you're the one who was offended by my profile pic |
qwe3
12.05.09 | prophet i never do that! for shame |
jagride
12.05.09 | Yea and you seem to misunderstand absolutely every situation. saying your profile pic is shitty doesnt mean i was offended by it |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | Prophet, I figured that. I was just wondering why you thought it would've got sad. Maybe because I would've owned qwe3? lol
As for the girl problems, I think he's sorted :) |
Curse.
12.05.09 | I will fight you Qwe. |
bungy
12.05.09 | His name is MrPoopular, I'm willing to bet he wasn't being serious |
Rubbadonga
12.05.09 | "prophet i never do that! for shame"
but you would tell me stfu for no reason? |
qwe3
12.05.09 | uh of course you would have owned me because there was no legitimate reason for me to tell you to shut up. which is why i didnt |
jagride
12.05.09 | lol at rubberdonga overreacting yet again |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | No, because you're comment was belittling to women, assuming they were only there for sexual purposes |
Prophet178
12.05.09 | If qwe was fighting just to fight it would've been sad/funny is what I was getting at. But he only gives it to people who deserve it, I should've known better. |
NebSnurb
12.05.09 | Just stop. It wont work out, trust me. |
Masochist
12.05.09 | Right...we get to the point that qwe WASN'T starting an argument with Dreams, and an argument begins to break out between the two anyways over the fact? |
Zoo
12.05.09 | I'll trade you advice for Larry Fitzgerald. |
qwe3
12.05.09 | "No, because you're comment was belittling to women, assuming they were only there for sexual purposes"
exactly. which isnt a legit reason to say stfu. or is it? idk anymore.
and yeah this list is long enough as it is pulling out guys |
bungy
12.05.09 | I'm pulling it out |
Shrapnel94
12.05.09 | Its too late to jump in on the conversation, but I would just like to say that I love the Dryden. |
Dreamsoffew
12.05.09 | No I think qwe's confused. Prophet thought he was talking to me, and said if he is it's gonna get sad real quick.
I asked Prophet why that is and jokingly mentioned that I would own him in an argument, if he had it said it to me.
Damm internet! |
Rubbadonga
12.05.09 | it was just a joke qwe3
pulling out also (even though i usually dont) |
jagride
12.05.09 | you must be very proud, here, have the poopular badge of honor, its brown |
Shrapnel94
12.05.09 | Guys STFU. This is about Zepplin's disputes not your own. Fgtz.
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bungy
12.05.09 | That's the spirit fisherfreak |
Curse.
12.05.09 | Shrapnel is so smart, everyone should listen to him. I love it when people are holier than thou |
Shrapnel94
12.05.09 | I understand sarcasm is hard to detect from reading text, curseworship. |
klap
12.05.09 | fuck what i would give to be 16 again and not in a relationship |
Curse.
12.05.09 | What I would give to be 16 again without insane acne. That would have been sweet. |
Shrapnel94
12.05.09 | I FUCKING HATE ACNE |
ameypv
12.05.09 | some lol comments made this list automatically sad |
